Prov 12 Love or Hate?

The author presents two sides of people. There are those who love God and there are those who hate God. Which side am I on? Example: A noble wife is the crown of her husband,but the wife who acts shamefully is like rottenness in his bones. A wife who dishonors her husband is in reality dishonoring God for He has placed them together and they have vowed to honor and obey. This is a warning to all of us who are wives. But, it goes the other way as well just as there are two sides to every coin.  

Today may I be found righteous before my husband and before God. If you are reading this, may this be true for you as well, husband or wife.